How to Get Exactly What You Want in Life
Life can be confusing, stressful, unfair, difficult, etc. Right?
Well what if it didn’t have to be? What if everything could just work in your favor? And it wasn’t stressful, unfair, difficult, etc.?
Sounds like a dream doesn’t it? Well, enough of these questions, I’m going to teach you exactly how you can achieve anything you want in life.
I want to start out with the fact that nobody is perfect, as you read this please keep peace with yourself. Don’t get down on yourself because you’re not the best at one thing or another, everything takes practice. So as you implement these tips, you will see your life change for the better. It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen over time as you practice these things again and again.
My first and most important step is to Focus and Stop being indifferent
Stop just going with the flow of things, and accepting the things that happen to you. And if you’re unhappy where you are, decide what you really want in life.
What is going to make your life better right now? What is keeping you from being happy, or living the life you want?
And if you don’t know what you want, write a list of all the things that interest you and start taking opportunities to explore them. By doing this you will learn more about yourself and what you really love doing, and what you don’t love doing, and possibly find something else that you never would have thought of that could be your life calling.
The cure of indifference in life, is action.
After you have your goals and focus set, comes the next step.
Which is Thinking Positively
Too often we are our biggest critics, our biggest bullies, and the biggest influence that holds us back from getting what we want.
Instead of listening to the negative thoughts and doubts that run through your mind, think positively. Tell yourself why you deserve a good life, why you can accomplish your goals. By doing this you will become your biggest support, and you are the person you need the most support from. Because no one else is going to get you what you want in life. That is up to you.
So next time a negative thought comes to your mind counter it with a positive. If you have a thought of why you aren’t good enough, think of why you are good enough, why your unique talents make you important and how they will help you find success.
Next is to have Patience with yourself
If your goal is to make a million dollars you are going to have to have some serious patience, because success doesn’t happen overnight. And it’s gonna take a while to make a million dollars. But it can happen, success comes through trial and error and pure dedication.
Don’t give up on your goals because they may take a while to achieve, the time is going to pass by anyway, so keep persisting. Keep working on your goals everyday.
If you find yourself running out of patiences with yourself, set a schedule. Get in a routine where no matter what you will commit 1 hour of your day toward your goals.
Believe the best is yet to come
The world isn’t against you, so quit acting like it is.
If you’re having a bad day, or you’re just in a rut and feel like giving up. You need to give yourself a break and remind yourself that it’s a bad moment, not a bad life.
Because the more you focus on negativity the more you are going to attract it. Avoid training your brain to only focus on the bad things that happen, because that’s all you’ll able to see. If you focus on the good, you instantly feel happier, and your brain starts to realize that life is good and you are to see that good things are coming your way.
Meditation and Yoga
If you are prone to stress, anxiety, worrying too much, or if you want to make your life better it’s time you incorporate meditation and a yoga session into your daily routine.
Yoga calms down your mind and relaxes your body. Meditation reduces stress, helps you feel peace, and helps you stay focused.
If you don’t know where to even start check out Yoga With Adriene. I tune into her channel and do a yoga flow at the end of the day to unwind and reset for the next day.
Stop caring what other people think
As Taylor Swift said:
Haters gonna hate
If you spend even a minute worrying about what others think of you, that is a valuable minute you just gave up to someone that wants you to fail.
Don’t give your haters that power over! Spend your time, and your thoughts to better yourself, better your life, serve others, work towards your goals, etc. but don’t give your haters your energy or time. Because they aren’t worth it.
Get rid of limiting beliefs
This right here is one of my favorite quotes:
Whatever you constantly tell yourself will come true. If you tell yourself you will be successful, you will be.
If you tell yourself that you’re not going anywhere in life, and you’re just not good at anything. You’re right.
Your mind will find ways to make what you think a reality. So whatever your limiting beliefs are. Get rid of them! Fill your head with positive thoughts, write your goals down where you can see them every day, and don’t give up on yourself.
Follow these guidelines and watch your life change for the better.